have pity for your parents....love them

Hi! I am here in kelantan. We went to machang bazar ramadhan. Bought Perut air as am, kerabu Peru, Ikan percik, salok lad a, Colek, sotong pulut, daging gulai kawah. Crazy, really crazy....looking at all the food. I have already prepared every thing for my parents. Kuih ray a, baju raya and yesterday, I took myfather to see a barber. His hair need to be cut and so were the beard and the moustache. Oh ya my mother in law looks thin, she still has no appetite to eat rice or other food. Just eats her nestum and porridge. My father in law looks tired. I think they should take a maid but i don't think my husband's family like the idea. Tomorrow, I will help them to clean up their house. There's something I am not satisfied here. When you come to your parents' house. You know that they are not that well. Please bring your own towels and clean up the place especially the bedroom that you used. If you still want to use their towel make sure you wash it, not just leave it there. Hanging at the chair and the door. One more thing, please bring your food when you visit them. They don't have to cook or prepare food for you. They love their children's visit but please do not bully your parents. Don't just call your parents asking how are they doing. Ask them what do they want. Do they have enough rice, fish, vegetable or anything at home? If not, buy it for them. Like my parents, they have money to buy anything they want, the problem is who want to buy it for them. When you go to the market, buy food for your family, have you ever think of your parents. Don't just think oh someone else will buy it for them. And then, you just call and ask, emak sihat? Tak patut, tak patut. You have many children and one day your children will do that to you. Life is a full circle. I always open my heart and mind when I face this kind of situation. They should think better furthermore, I am the youngest in the family........