love me, love me not

Hi! I am so busy since last week, with the competitions and my open house last Sunday, I really didn't have time for myself. My beautician called me because I forgot about my appointment. Had to postpone it. No time! This saturday,my family including my niece will go for a trip, Singapore trip. Yes! Our staff club organised it. Thank you cikgu mazlan. Next year, hopefully we will go somewhere further. This week is about guys who like to bully girls and girls who do not mind to be bullied or abused by their boyfriend or husband. Last week, while having breakfast with my friends, they talked about one case. The wife was abused by the husband. I told them that women must be strong and brave. We cannot let the guys to bully or abuse us. My husband did hit me once. My son made him angry so he tried to hit my son. I pulled his collar because I know if a guy was angry, he would hit so hard. My husband hit my hand. It was hard. That was the first and hopefully the last one. I was so angry that i hit him back. So, we were even. I did hit my son but he understood the reason for it. I want to teach him on how to focus on his study. But when you are angry, don't hit your children. You will hit so hard. That is not we call teaching. Pity the kids. I told my friends that we as Muslim women must respect our husband but we need to defend ourselves or protect our children. I don't think I was guilty when i hit my husband back. I told him that i don't like man who beat kids or women. The kids are small and the women are soft. If you want to fight, you have to find a man. Luckily, he listened to me. When he was angry, he just kept quiet. He would try to ignore my son. Tell you the truth, we must love ourselves first. If your husband loves you, he won't hit you. He would treat you like a lover. I know my husband loves me and my son so much but you know guys......we have to teach them on how treat us properly and lovingly. Take care.....