The right guy

Hi! Today I had a chat with my student, a girl. Well, we talked about boys. She is a very smart girl. Her boyfriend is not like her, playful and not matured. I don't know. May be this is what we call love. I don't mind if the guys are not rich or less smart but they must be responsible, caring and hardworking. I like kalai selvam. His class is 5 mpv (the last class) . When I found out that his girlfriend is a 5 SC prefect. I just said, love is really blind. Then, when this boy helped me a lot, wow he has a charisma. He has his vision. He knows that he cannot do well in his study, he learns technical thing like repairing car or whatever. He helped me in the library, all the Indian girls looked at him and said something. This boy didn't even look at them. He just did his work. Very loyal. Now I have no comment about them. As long as they know the limit. The girl will get a good result in spm and the boy will take care of her in his own way. The problem is if the boy that we love is lazy, irresponsible, playful, just know the word enjoy and likes to flirt. Better to forget him. I told that girl, it is a long way to go. After this you will go to a university or college, you will meet new boys. Then, you will get a good job and meet new guys. I asked her to make a choice, a guy that you love but irresponsible or the guy that you don't love but very responsible. He knows how to take care of himself and of course he will take a good care of us. Sooner or later you will fall in love with this kind of guy. Love is important but make sure we give our love to the right person, the person who deserves it...........bye.

just a comment from me

Hi! I watched the match last night, lee Hong Wei vs Lin Dan. I think both of them were good. For the first time, I saw Lin Dan panicked during the match. CHONG WEI WAS BETTER THAN BEFORE. He was so energetic. But why did he lose? Easy. He should meet misbun sidek, his former coach before he left malaysia or at least called him before the final match. He should respect misbun because he was the one who made Hong Wei to become world number one badminton player then. He should not forget what misbun had done for him. Every body said Hong Wei was a good guy compare to Lin Dan. He is good but he does not respect his former coach and that is bad. Lin Dan has the fierce look but a soft heart. All of us could see his wife and mom came to support him. He was very patriotic indeed. He really loved his country ( we could see from his action). I told my students many times. You must respect your parents and teachers. They will pray for your success. In 2009, there was one girl who was rude to me. I was giving the class the techniques of answering, she made noise. I told her that if she didn't want to listen, she could leave. So she left. It was bad. I prayed to god please let this girl passed this paper. She had tuition outside so she didn't need my class. I was scared this girl would fail. When the result came out, all her friends got b or c. She got d. At least she passed, thank god. I don't want my students to worship me, I don't mind if they didn't give me a present, I just want them to respect me. Not to salute me. Just pay attention during my class. If you are so good but your attitude is bad, I don't think you can do well in your exam. I also learn from my mistake. I can't hurt my mother's feeling, if I do that my life will be like hell. When I was in form five and at university, I did hurt her feeling. I failed one subject (school one) and one paper (university one) . Until now, before I do something I will get her permission. I will ask her first. That's why I cannot be bad, god will punish me. Dusyum, dusyum. Once again, BE GOOD.........

dam! dum! bunyi mercun

Hi! Two more weeks before hari raya. My son begged me to buy him firework and I just said no. I don't want him to get hurt. He said that he will buy it from his friend and they will play at school. Where did he learn that threatening skill? May be my husband will buy that thing for him. When I was small, my bothers would buy that thing for us, the girls. As the youngest one, I preferred to watch them playing it. I was scared to hold it. Another scary thing is balloon. I like balloon and firework but I am just scared. Same with the height. Now, I am quite OK. Last time, I wouldn't dare to look down. All because of my second floor library. Sometimes, when I need my students' help, I just shout from there. Lots of practice can overcome your phobia. Tonight, I will go to the mosque to perform terawih prayer. No homemade hwri ray a cookies, just ordered as usual. Pity my big oven! Next time OK.

Just be good, ok

Hi! I think my eyesight is getting worse. It is time to visit the optometrist. Later la. This afternoon at school, suddenly I had chest pained. I stopped doing my work. I went to the canteen and bought some food, ayam percik, masak as am ikan tenggiri, Tempe goreng and masak lemak peria. Yummee, yummee, yummee. Heiiii be patient, I still have another three hours. Focus on the topic please. Why people like me so lazy to see a doctor? First, now I don't feel the pain anymore, so relax. May be I am just tired. If I want to see a doctor, I need my husband to take me there. It means I have to tell him about my chestpained and he will get worry. No need. I always think of other people first. Tried to change but I can't. I told my mom once that I am tired of being good. My mom asked me back, did you lose anythin when you are good? I told her no. In fact I got everything I want or more than what other people got. Then, she said, see, there's nothing wrong to be good. You should be grateful to God. Yes, what she said is right. We should appreciate what we have. I sacrifice for my family, God makes my life easy. It 's boring but better than people who lead difficult life. When I think of it....I AM So LUCKY.

Hi! My first day of fasting after seven days break. I am completely fine. Today, I had a chat with form one boys. They asked me about my Facebook. I told them that I have the account but I never open my Facebook. They asked me why? I said I was just curious to know about Facebook. I got e mails from the ones who want to join my Facebook but I just ignored. Same with being the follower of my own blog. I had problem with my blog at first so I just clicked sign in and walla i became the follower of my own blog. Idiot! And then the boys asked me whether I have friends. I said yes but I just want to focus on my family. Then, one boy said I should know how to divide my time. Just spend one hour on Facebook just like what his mother did. I told them that I have blog because I love writing. Another boy said,"boring ma'. Never mind everybody has their own opinion. Oh ya, my son did fast but only half days. 12.30pm he will break his fast. At least he tried. Oh ya! I did have the experience fasting in mecca and Medina. They didn't think of the food too much. As long as they had the dates and zam-zam water, enough. After that they I'll perform maghrib, isyak and terawih. Unlike us, from Malaysia. After performing maghrib prayer,we would go back to our hotel to have our sort of dinner. I really salute the people there. They were not rich but their iman and love to Allah is infinity. As long as they could perform umrah, visited rosulullah 's tomb and kaabah, they didn't care about the accommodation, transport, food or shopping. They just want to visit Allah's house, kaabah and they missed their rosulullah by visiting his tomb. Oh God I really miss to do all that. Do you know that our rosul was the perfect example of everything, marriage, love, children and friendship. He was the best and I mean it. I read articles about him and so far nobody could beat his kindness, gentleness, etc. Solawat for you our rosulullah.

A message to all couples

Hi! Just read articles about kristen Stewart cheats on Robert pattison. It was awful. I feel pity to both of them. I don't know why she did that but ma y be she's bored of being a good, loyal girlfriend. I think she loves Robert but she needs something to excite her dull, tired life. I am very sure she's not in love with the director, it's just a fling. Robert is too perfect or too good. One more thing a long distance relationship is a disaster. If you love someone, you won't leave her. Well, you can call her but it won't be the same. Certain type of women or men need their loved one to be by their side. Who will know your problem that you face, who will give you support right away and who will be there when you need someone....always the loved one. But what about if he's not around. He or she just listen to your voice only without knowing the real problem that you face. Hiiii...next time just follow the loved one anywhere he or she goes. If not, ask her or him to resign. Settle. Last time when I wanted to further my study abroad, my husband told me that he would take one year leave. He would leave his job for a year to be by my side. At the same time, he could tale care of our son there. When he said that, I was like oh my god this man wants to sacrifice his seniority just because I want to fulfill my dream. No way, he is the captain of this family, I won't let him to do that. So, I just cancelled it and now my husband got his promotion. That's more important than my dream. Husband and wife, girlfriend boyfriend cannot be in differerent way. There is only one way and we must always be together to share everything, the pain, the happiness and what is more important is LOVE. Put down our ego, remember all the good things that both of you share together , learn from your mistakes, starts a new life together.

Hi! Just got my new car last Saturday. OK lah. My only problem is the handbrake. I have to push it using my left foot. I think after one week I'll get use to it. Cikgu mazlan had requested to sell my crv to him. I don't know, may be this will be my last car. My first car was the cute kanchil, Gen 2 was the second one. After that I bought innova. So far, the best car was Inova. I felt safe. It was like a mother hugging a baby. Kanchil was scary, gen-2, the freedom but the boot was too small and crv, I feel anxious. Hiiii....can I change the topic? My parents are not well. I tried to help them but that's not enough. Must have someone to stay with them. Need to cook and clean the house. If we don't have a house may be we will move. Oh my god I feel so sleepy, need to take a map. Bye.